I have been thinking about this chapter for the last couple of days. It is a chapter I know well. As I was thinking I realized I had no idea what the first 9 verses of the chapter said. So I decide when I read today I would focus on the 9 verses I didn’t know instead of 21 verses I know so well. What I found most interesting was that these were the sayings of a king, things his mother had taught him. As a mother of two boys, I can now easily understand why a mother would instruct her son in this way. Basically she tells him not to chase after women or booze. She explains to him the how these things can deter his leadership. And then I was given an entirely new perspective on the “Wife of Noble Character”. This was what a mother was telling her son to seek out in a wife. That makes so much sense. Often times the mothers of boys are notorious for being tough on daughter in laws. Could it be because this is the expectation mothers have for the women who marry their boys? I also like that these desired qualities in a wife came from a wife and a mom.
My two favorite verses about the noble wife are 12 and 18. They are the most practical verses to me. Bringing your husband good and, not harm all the days of our lives, well that pretty much sums it up, doesn’t it?! I often ask myself if what I am doing is bringing good or harm to my husband. It is not all about me, though I often forget this. I have this journal from a long time ago that has a picture of a woman on it. The quote on the front is “She had not yet decided whether to use her power for good or evil.” I’m sure it is meant to be funny; I once thought it was, but it’s true that women can have much influence over men and we need to be careful to use it for good and not evil. Can’t say I have always done that, but I strive to do “good” by my husband now. Then we have verse 18 which I translate in this day and age to managing a home in a financially efficient manner with a light that doesn’t go out at night. This woman gets up while it is still dark and stays up late to get all the things done she needs to get done for her family. She is a true servant.
“She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.” Proverbs 31:17 (NIV)
I am convinced that this woman’s arms are strong because of all the work she does around her home and raising her children. Many working wives and moms today have to go to the gym to strengthen their arms and I’m convinced this is because they are not cleaning their own homes or raising their own children. Maids and child care providers are stealing our strong arms. She works vigorously too. I confess I do not always do this. Sometimes I am just barely getting things done and there is no vigorous about it. There are so many gleanings from this chapter in Proverbs. I would have to write pages and pages to document all I have learned from just verses 10-31 over the years. I pray that God would make me the kind of woman that my mommy in law is proud to have her son married to. I will pray that my boys will have wives who strive to be such good wives
Friday, July 31, 2009
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Proverbs 30
An oracle?! Who is this Agur son of Jakeh…I must say I have never heard of him. After reading today’s chapter I am convinced that I’ve never read it before. Everything in the chapter seemed so new and fresh. I feel like this man, this oracle, is a man who I can really relate to. I have been able to relate more to this chapter today than any other this whole month. Verses 1-4 were amazing. It is a beautiful place to know that there is no understanding without the one who established the ends of the earth. His words remind me of the way Paul speaks. There is such a beautiful picture of a man who recognizes that he is nothing outside of Christ and this is OT we are talking here.
Verse 5 reminds us that the word of God is without blemish. It is pure and flawless. It will protect us those of us who trust in God. The Lord really did give us all the answers; we just need to seek to find them, and most of time they are clear as day directly in front of us.
V7-9…What a perfect desire to have, just wanting to be somewhere in the middle. This will be my prayer from now on regarding our finances. I will pray that the Lord not make us rich or poor, but that He would just fill our needs. I never want to be so rich that I am not dependent on Him and I never want to be so poor that I compromise my faith to feed my family. I have never seen these verses before and I was so impressed with them.
I particularly enjoyed the 3 things which were too wonderful or amazing (depending on version) for him. That none of these things leave their mark or a trail is amazing. My commentary states that this is a natural illustration for the hypocrisy of concealment. It is a preface for the next verse about the adulterous woman.
Even the earth is perturbed when things don’t go as they should. When a fool is living well fed, or a servant is ruling, an unloved married woman…it’s like they should all be oxymoron’s in theory but they really exist from time to time.
I love the little wise ants. Again I am amazed at all the ways God incorporated lessons for us in His creation, even His tiniest of creation.
And then there is our warning or exhortation even…if you have been foolish thinking yourself better than you are be ashamed. Just as you can prove milk produces butter, remember wrath produces strife.
That reminds me of a funny saying a friend of mine used to say…
If I could buy him/her for what she was worth and sell him/her for what she thought she was worth…I’d be rich. May we always be humble enough to know what we are worth outside of Christ…it's not much people, it’s not much.
Verse 5 reminds us that the word of God is without blemish. It is pure and flawless. It will protect us those of us who trust in God. The Lord really did give us all the answers; we just need to seek to find them, and most of time they are clear as day directly in front of us.
V7-9…What a perfect desire to have, just wanting to be somewhere in the middle. This will be my prayer from now on regarding our finances. I will pray that the Lord not make us rich or poor, but that He would just fill our needs. I never want to be so rich that I am not dependent on Him and I never want to be so poor that I compromise my faith to feed my family. I have never seen these verses before and I was so impressed with them.
I particularly enjoyed the 3 things which were too wonderful or amazing (depending on version) for him. That none of these things leave their mark or a trail is amazing. My commentary states that this is a natural illustration for the hypocrisy of concealment. It is a preface for the next verse about the adulterous woman.
Even the earth is perturbed when things don’t go as they should. When a fool is living well fed, or a servant is ruling, an unloved married woman…it’s like they should all be oxymoron’s in theory but they really exist from time to time.
I love the little wise ants. Again I am amazed at all the ways God incorporated lessons for us in His creation, even His tiniest of creation.
And then there is our warning or exhortation even…if you have been foolish thinking yourself better than you are be ashamed. Just as you can prove milk produces butter, remember wrath produces strife.
That reminds me of a funny saying a friend of mine used to say…
If I could buy him/her for what she was worth and sell him/her for what she thought she was worth…I’d be rich. May we always be humble enough to know what we are worth outside of Christ…it's not much people, it’s not much.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Proverbs 29
“A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back.” Proverbs 29:11 (NKJV)
“A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.” (NIV)
I find it interesting that the word “vent” is used. Venting is generally just complaining for a long time with the hope that it will make you feel better. Really if we are learning to take captive our thoughts we will think of other things and not the things that are upsetting us so much. You can basically pray about things or change your thoughts to think about something else. A wise man will hold his feelings back. That really isn’t in the nature of women is it? We always need to tell people how we feel. This is not the only place that the Bible tells us not to let our feelings run the show. Remember that the heart is deceitful above all things. Verse 20 also addresses the issue of self control and speech. There is more hope for a fool than for a man who speaks to quickly. If you have been going through this study then you know how bad it is to be a fool. And now we are told that there is more hope for a fool than for someone who speaks in haste. Wow! I long to perfect self control, in my speech particularly. My desire is to be a wise, self-controlled woman who does not vent all my feelings.
V 20…There is no need or purpose in fearing man. We need to always trust in the Lord. We can easily become ensnared by what-ifs. Trusting in the Lord through all circumstances will bring us both peace and safety.
“A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.” (NIV)
I find it interesting that the word “vent” is used. Venting is generally just complaining for a long time with the hope that it will make you feel better. Really if we are learning to take captive our thoughts we will think of other things and not the things that are upsetting us so much. You can basically pray about things or change your thoughts to think about something else. A wise man will hold his feelings back. That really isn’t in the nature of women is it? We always need to tell people how we feel. This is not the only place that the Bible tells us not to let our feelings run the show. Remember that the heart is deceitful above all things. Verse 20 also addresses the issue of self control and speech. There is more hope for a fool than for a man who speaks to quickly. If you have been going through this study then you know how bad it is to be a fool. And now we are told that there is more hope for a fool than for someone who speaks in haste. Wow! I long to perfect self control, in my speech particularly. My desire is to be a wise, self-controlled woman who does not vent all my feelings.
V 20…There is no need or purpose in fearing man. We need to always trust in the Lord. We can easily become ensnared by what-ifs. Trusting in the Lord through all circumstances will bring us both peace and safety.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Proverbs 28
When we are not doing anything wrong we don’t feel guilty. The wicked man thinks everyone is blaming him for something. He is doing so much wrong he doesn’t even know who would be mad at him and why they would be mad.
It is better to be a poor man who is blameless with integrity than to be rich. We are not supposed to even desire to be rich. I wonder what God would say rich was. Would He say it was having more than we need? We would probably all be guilty of that.
Not obeying God make our prayers detestable to Him. That is a scary thought.
Hiding our sin is not good. I believe that Satan often uses shame as a tool to keep us from confessing our sin. Confessing our sin and changing our ways is how we will find mercy in the eyes of the Lord.
When we harden our hearts to the Lord’s guidance is when we fall into trouble.
We are called to work, not to chase after dreams. This is pretty opposite of what the world teaches.
Blessings come to those who are faithful. Walking in wisdom keeps us safe.
It is better to be a poor man who is blameless with integrity than to be rich. We are not supposed to even desire to be rich. I wonder what God would say rich was. Would He say it was having more than we need? We would probably all be guilty of that.
Not obeying God make our prayers detestable to Him. That is a scary thought.
Hiding our sin is not good. I believe that Satan often uses shame as a tool to keep us from confessing our sin. Confessing our sin and changing our ways is how we will find mercy in the eyes of the Lord.
When we harden our hearts to the Lord’s guidance is when we fall into trouble.
We are called to work, not to chase after dreams. This is pretty opposite of what the world teaches.
Blessings come to those who are faithful. Walking in wisdom keeps us safe.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Proverbs 27
We really don’t know what God has in store for our future. The best we can do is be wise and prepared and remember that He is in control. It is a scary place to be thinking we have control over everything. We have choices, free will, but we must remember that God is sovereign.
Someone willing to correct you is better than someone who loves you but keeps it a secret. In my flesh, I think I’d rather think people loved me in secret. But I guess the point is that open rebuke is a better kind of love. A friend will tell you what you need to hear, even if it hurts, while someone else may tell you what you want to hear even if it doesn’t benefit you. I would much prefer wounds of a friend and open rebuke.
But to a hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet…this reminded me of how people seek to fulfill themselves in the world. Every bitter thing (sin) is sweet (temporarily fulfilling). A satisfied soul doesn’t need the indulgences of honeycomb. My commentary said something completely different, but that is how this verse spoke to me.
I wondered for a long time today about verse 10. My commentary said to stick with friends that were tried and true because relatives may be less reliable than then genuine friends. I was thinking maybe it has something to do with distance or something. Anyway, I would like to know what this word for neighbor was in Hebrew because neighbor and friend don’t seem like close to the same word in our vocabulary, though I am great friends with my neighbor.
“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” This has become one of my favorite verses over the years. Amos and I always joke about how when iron sharpens iron there can be sparks. I believe God uses our spouses to sharpen us more than He uses anyone else.
A man’s actions reflect his heart. What is in our hearts will come out of us in one way or another. It is important to pay attention to such things. It is also a good tool to use for ourselves in evaluating our walk with the Lord.
Someone willing to correct you is better than someone who loves you but keeps it a secret. In my flesh, I think I’d rather think people loved me in secret. But I guess the point is that open rebuke is a better kind of love. A friend will tell you what you need to hear, even if it hurts, while someone else may tell you what you want to hear even if it doesn’t benefit you. I would much prefer wounds of a friend and open rebuke.
But to a hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet…this reminded me of how people seek to fulfill themselves in the world. Every bitter thing (sin) is sweet (temporarily fulfilling). A satisfied soul doesn’t need the indulgences of honeycomb. My commentary said something completely different, but that is how this verse spoke to me.
I wondered for a long time today about verse 10. My commentary said to stick with friends that were tried and true because relatives may be less reliable than then genuine friends. I was thinking maybe it has something to do with distance or something. Anyway, I would like to know what this word for neighbor was in Hebrew because neighbor and friend don’t seem like close to the same word in our vocabulary, though I am great friends with my neighbor.
“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” This has become one of my favorite verses over the years. Amos and I always joke about how when iron sharpens iron there can be sparks. I believe God uses our spouses to sharpen us more than He uses anyone else.
A man’s actions reflect his heart. What is in our hearts will come out of us in one way or another. It is important to pay attention to such things. It is also a good tool to use for ourselves in evaluating our walk with the Lord.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Proverbs 26
Verses 1, 8 and 11 were highlighted in my old Bible. God really was trying to warn me against being a fool. As a dog returns to its vomit… wow, what a disgusting visual that shows us how stupid it is to repeat your mistakes. As I think back I can now easily see that God was trying to steer me clear of certain people. I can see how he was trying to tell me not to make the same mistakes over and over. I wish I would have understood then.
Also highlighted were verses 17-20, all about the tongue, which is suiting given what the message was at church this morning. I remember a time when whenever anyone hurt someone’s feelings or someone got mad at what someone else said, we would all say ‘I was just kidding’. The Bible actually says not to do that. We need to think before we speak. Gossip and meddling are deemed foolish here too, as foolish as grabbing a dog’s ears. I think that is such a funny visual, but it’s so true. How many of us would walk up to a dog and pull on its ears? I would say not many of us, and yet we are so quick to get involved in affairs that are not our own and/or speak or listen to gossip, which is just as foolish.
Verses 23-26 really touched me today. I highlighted 23 and 25 many years ago. Even though I highlighted them in my Bible I didn’t have any way of being accountable for them just a few years later. These verses are so close to my heart because they remind me of why I love to serve in youth ministry. I am reminded of how easy it is, especially at a young age, to believe someone with charming speech. There have been many women over the years who I have loved dearly as friends that I have watched begin to love “a malicious man who disguises himself with his lips.” I myself have been fooled by such men. The reason I love to work with youth is because you can teach young girls to recognize signs of a deceiver. I’m sure I’ve said it before, but one of the reasons I love our church is because they stress love being an action. To all my single ladies out there, remember that a man’s character is reflected by his actions not his words. Proverbs warns against the charming ones who can disguise themselves with their lips.
That reminds me of how much I love my husband and his desire for wisdom. I thank Jesus every day that He gave me a man of integrity whose words I never have to question because his actions are always in line with the things he says. He shows me he loves me, he doesn’t just say it! What a blessing it is to be married and confident that I am not being fooled by a charming man whose malice is concealed by deception. There but for the grace of God, dear sisters, is it so.
Also highlighted were verses 17-20, all about the tongue, which is suiting given what the message was at church this morning. I remember a time when whenever anyone hurt someone’s feelings or someone got mad at what someone else said, we would all say ‘I was just kidding’. The Bible actually says not to do that. We need to think before we speak. Gossip and meddling are deemed foolish here too, as foolish as grabbing a dog’s ears. I think that is such a funny visual, but it’s so true. How many of us would walk up to a dog and pull on its ears? I would say not many of us, and yet we are so quick to get involved in affairs that are not our own and/or speak or listen to gossip, which is just as foolish.
Verses 23-26 really touched me today. I highlighted 23 and 25 many years ago. Even though I highlighted them in my Bible I didn’t have any way of being accountable for them just a few years later. These verses are so close to my heart because they remind me of why I love to serve in youth ministry. I am reminded of how easy it is, especially at a young age, to believe someone with charming speech. There have been many women over the years who I have loved dearly as friends that I have watched begin to love “a malicious man who disguises himself with his lips.” I myself have been fooled by such men. The reason I love to work with youth is because you can teach young girls to recognize signs of a deceiver. I’m sure I’ve said it before, but one of the reasons I love our church is because they stress love being an action. To all my single ladies out there, remember that a man’s character is reflected by his actions not his words. Proverbs warns against the charming ones who can disguise themselves with their lips.
That reminds me of how much I love my husband and his desire for wisdom. I thank Jesus every day that He gave me a man of integrity whose words I never have to question because his actions are always in line with the things he says. He shows me he loves me, he doesn’t just say it! What a blessing it is to be married and confident that I am not being fooled by a charming man whose malice is concealed by deception. There but for the grace of God, dear sisters, is it so.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Proverbs 24 and 25
While going through old boxes in the garage I came across an old Bible. I found it interesting to see what I highlighted in Proverbs 24 and 25, oh so many years ago. I suppose t he Lord was trying to reveal Himself to me even then. It seems that whatever I read in those days must have gone in one ear and out the other because I don’t remember retaining any of the lessons I see when I read it today. As I look back on my life and what was going on in it, I see now how God was trying to warn me to stay away from “wicked” men. I see how He was trying to show me that wisdom and knowledge are beautiful and rare treasures. I see that He was trying to tell me that there would be times of trouble and that if I would just strengthen myself I would not falter. I see that He was trying to tell me that wisdom would be my soul mate and my hope would be found there. He was trying to show me the sweetness of the truth. He was trying to tell me that I would be wronged and to not seek revenge, even in my heart. He was trying to show me that there is a difference between people who are being a “led astray” and those who are “staggering toward death.” He was trying to show me to have a great love for them, but not to be stumbled by them. He was warning me against laziness, procrastination and making excuses. He was telling me to make sure I knew what I was talking about before I got involved in a situation. He was trying to show me how important it is to keep someone’s confidence. God was trying to change my mindset from “I don’t care what people think of me” to “being a woman of good reputation is important”. He was preparing my heart for people who would set the example of patience and gentleness. He was trying to prepare my heart for valuable rebuking. He was trying to warn me against putting my faith in unfaithful people in times of trouble.
This Bible was read in High School; though there was much I didn’t understand. I know that God word’s does not return void. He prepared my heart for the next season in my life, even when I didn’t realize it. Had I picked up my Bible more during that season I would have seen the words that were highlighted and how important they were to me in those particular days.
I am grateful now at the way God reveals himself to me in His Word. I am grateful for the lessons He taught me through my circumstances, though I realize now what a fool I was to have the answers in front of me all along. God is so good. Jesus is so faithful. What a blessing it is to serve our risen Lord.
This Bible was read in High School; though there was much I didn’t understand. I know that God word’s does not return void. He prepared my heart for the next season in my life, even when I didn’t realize it. Had I picked up my Bible more during that season I would have seen the words that were highlighted and how important they were to me in those particular days.
I am grateful now at the way God reveals himself to me in His Word. I am grateful for the lessons He taught me through my circumstances, though I realize now what a fool I was to have the answers in front of me all along. God is so good. Jesus is so faithful. What a blessing it is to serve our risen Lord.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Proverbs 23
The themes that stuck out at me most today were what I am going to call; things not to get led astray by. Yes, I know my grammar is impeccable. First we are told not to be led astray the desire to get rich. We are not to overwork ourselves with the goal of wealth in our minds and hearts. We are not to be led astray by our desire for the fancy things the rich folk have. Daniel was a great example of this. He didn’t take the king’s delicacies and I can’t help but wonder if Daniel didn’t want to feel like he owed the king anything.
We are not to be led astray by food or drink. I found it interesting and by that I mean convicting, that the drunkard and the glutton are put in the same category in verses 19-21. I do love me some food. I find that often times we revolve our lives around what and when we are going to eat. Food is not used as a means by which we sustain energy so we can better serve the Lord, but rather something to gratify our own specific wants. If I am honest with myself, I will have to admit that the way I eat and even choose meals is really quite self indulgent. That is gluttonous in of itself, is it not? There is some severe warning s against drunkenness too. Those who love the drink will be full of woe, sorrow, contentions, and complaints, wounds without cause, red eyes, bites and stings. But that is not what Satan would have us think, is it? The world will tell us that drinking will relax us and make us happy. The world will have us seek after temporary fulfillment and instant gratification. We must remember that the Word is Truth and its warnings are to protect us and help us live more satisfying lives.
We also don’t want to be let astray by how the world would tell us to raise our children. God requires us to discipline them. The sting of a spanking will wear off, but there are consequences to sin that will last a lifetime. As we Sheppard our children through their lives, we must remember to obey the ways God tells us to parent. Amos and I are reading through Shepparding a Child’s Heart. It is an amazing book that really gets to the heart of God in raising our children. I’m thinking of going through a study on that book next. “For surely there is a hereafter…” What are we living for? This life is a marathon. Run with endurance and keep your eye on the price. There is a hereafter. Focus on eternity with Christ. It will be our great reward
We are not to be led astray by food or drink. I found it interesting and by that I mean convicting, that the drunkard and the glutton are put in the same category in verses 19-21. I do love me some food. I find that often times we revolve our lives around what and when we are going to eat. Food is not used as a means by which we sustain energy so we can better serve the Lord, but rather something to gratify our own specific wants. If I am honest with myself, I will have to admit that the way I eat and even choose meals is really quite self indulgent. That is gluttonous in of itself, is it not? There is some severe warning s against drunkenness too. Those who love the drink will be full of woe, sorrow, contentions, and complaints, wounds without cause, red eyes, bites and stings. But that is not what Satan would have us think, is it? The world will tell us that drinking will relax us and make us happy. The world will have us seek after temporary fulfillment and instant gratification. We must remember that the Word is Truth and its warnings are to protect us and help us live more satisfying lives.
We also don’t want to be let astray by how the world would tell us to raise our children. God requires us to discipline them. The sting of a spanking will wear off, but there are consequences to sin that will last a lifetime. As we Sheppard our children through their lives, we must remember to obey the ways God tells us to parent. Amos and I are reading through Shepparding a Child’s Heart. It is an amazing book that really gets to the heart of God in raising our children. I’m thinking of going through a study on that book next. “For surely there is a hereafter…” What are we living for? This life is a marathon. Run with endurance and keep your eye on the price. There is a hereafter. Focus on eternity with Christ. It will be our great reward
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Proverbs 22
A good name...I have been cleaning out the garage the last couple of days getting ready for a yard sale this weekend. I have gone through boxes I haven’t gone through in years. I have tons and tons of pictures of people. As I look at a face of someone and think of their name, often someone I haven’t seen or thought about in years, I remember what I think of them. Some good things, some bad, but the person’s general character is defined to me by the memories I have of these people. It has really made me wonder what people think and say about me when they come across an old picture of me in a box in the garage. I’m sad to say that some people might not have the nicest things to say about me. I walked in the ways of the world for some time. My hope is that people who know me now will think highly of me when they hear my name. I pray that when people hear my name, they think, now there is a woman who loves and serves the Lord with her whole heart. I do desire this more than riches.
The borrower is servant to the lender… it is the truth! Amos and I have been trying to get out of debt for basically our entire marriage. When we were married we had 2 car payments and several credit card payments. We are down to 1 car payment and just a few credit cards left to pay off. It is a long slow process with many sacrifices along the way. Now we also have a home mortgage to incorporate into our debts. This friend of ours has recently sold his car and a couple of other expensive items and bought a bike in order to pay off his debt. I’m so proud of him. As Christians we are not to be a servant to anyone but Christ and often times we become enslaved to our financial obligations. One of the reasons I love our church so much is because our pastors really stress financial freedom.
All of these word, verses, chapters and books are for our benefit. They are written that we may understand the importance of knowledge and wisdom. They are written to us not only so we can know truth, but so that we can pass truth on to others. May passing the truth on to others always be a priority in our lives.
The borrower is servant to the lender… it is the truth! Amos and I have been trying to get out of debt for basically our entire marriage. When we were married we had 2 car payments and several credit card payments. We are down to 1 car payment and just a few credit cards left to pay off. It is a long slow process with many sacrifices along the way. Now we also have a home mortgage to incorporate into our debts. This friend of ours has recently sold his car and a couple of other expensive items and bought a bike in order to pay off his debt. I’m so proud of him. As Christians we are not to be a servant to anyone but Christ and often times we become enslaved to our financial obligations. One of the reasons I love our church so much is because our pastors really stress financial freedom.
All of these word, verses, chapters and books are for our benefit. They are written that we may understand the importance of knowledge and wisdom. They are written to us not only so we can know truth, but so that we can pass truth on to others. May passing the truth on to others always be a priority in our lives.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Proverbs 21
Diligence leads to plenty. What I found interesting about the ill gotten gain, was remembering that people can gain things through evil means. But that things you gain by evil means destroys the soul.
We have that warning again, twice actually, against being a contentious wife. This time proverbs says its better to live in the wilderness or on the corner of a roof than with a contentious wife. An argumentative angry wife is bad! Not that I condone divorce under any circumstances, but when you think of a naggy wife in this context, you can see why a man wouldn’t want to live with her.
Paying attention to the needy and poor is not an option for the Christian. We see here that God will not hear us in our hypocrisy. If we cry out to God and we are not acknowledging the cries of the poor, then God will not hear our cry.
Verse 16 really intrigued me because there is a picture of a man who already has understanding and then walked away from it. How scary to think you could already have the understanding that proverbs has been begging us to have and then abandon it for other things. One commentary I read said that this man was seduced by the pleasures of the world.
I know people that live for pleasure…I find myself caught up there sometimes too, living for great food and other self gratifying pleasures. We need to remember to harness our feasting and other luxuries. Living for such things will make us poor. It is not being good stewards of our resources.
A wise man will have oil in his house. We don’t really use oil for lamps anymore, but the message is still there. A wise man will have his home stocked with the necessities he needs. A wise man will be prepared. I’m reminded of the story of the wise and foolish virgins in Matthew 25. 5 of them took enough oil for the trip and 5 didn’t. The wise ones wouldn’t share because they had enough for themselves. By the time the foolish ones got to the door of the bridegroom and the door was shut. Preparation was needed. When they said, “Lord, Lord,” he responded with “I don’t know you.” Oil is also symbolic of the Holy Spirit. This is a reminder to us to keep our own lamps full of His Spirit so that our light may shine brightly to those around us.
Wisdom is better than strength. Guarding our tongues keeps our souls out of trouble. It is important that we give freely instead of desiring what other people have.
There is no wisdom, counsel or understanding to be found outside of the Lord.
“The horse is prepared for the day of battle, but deliverance is of the Lord” Proverbs 21:30
Every day we need to get up and be prepared for battle. We need to get up every day and do our part. God will take care of the rest. We do our part, and He will do His. I find great comfort in this.
We have that warning again, twice actually, against being a contentious wife. This time proverbs says its better to live in the wilderness or on the corner of a roof than with a contentious wife. An argumentative angry wife is bad! Not that I condone divorce under any circumstances, but when you think of a naggy wife in this context, you can see why a man wouldn’t want to live with her.
Paying attention to the needy and poor is not an option for the Christian. We see here that God will not hear us in our hypocrisy. If we cry out to God and we are not acknowledging the cries of the poor, then God will not hear our cry.
Verse 16 really intrigued me because there is a picture of a man who already has understanding and then walked away from it. How scary to think you could already have the understanding that proverbs has been begging us to have and then abandon it for other things. One commentary I read said that this man was seduced by the pleasures of the world.
I know people that live for pleasure…I find myself caught up there sometimes too, living for great food and other self gratifying pleasures. We need to remember to harness our feasting and other luxuries. Living for such things will make us poor. It is not being good stewards of our resources.
A wise man will have oil in his house. We don’t really use oil for lamps anymore, but the message is still there. A wise man will have his home stocked with the necessities he needs. A wise man will be prepared. I’m reminded of the story of the wise and foolish virgins in Matthew 25. 5 of them took enough oil for the trip and 5 didn’t. The wise ones wouldn’t share because they had enough for themselves. By the time the foolish ones got to the door of the bridegroom and the door was shut. Preparation was needed. When they said, “Lord, Lord,” he responded with “I don’t know you.” Oil is also symbolic of the Holy Spirit. This is a reminder to us to keep our own lamps full of His Spirit so that our light may shine brightly to those around us.
Wisdom is better than strength. Guarding our tongues keeps our souls out of trouble. It is important that we give freely instead of desiring what other people have.
There is no wisdom, counsel or understanding to be found outside of the Lord.
“The horse is prepared for the day of battle, but deliverance is of the Lord” Proverbs 21:30
Every day we need to get up and be prepared for battle. We need to get up every day and do our part. God will take care of the rest. We do our part, and He will do His. I find great comfort in this.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Proverbs 20
Proverbs 20
Being led astray by alcohol is not wise. Anything that alters your mindset so that you are not capable of making good choices is not wise. I think of this often because it seems in our society today alcohol is such an issue. Apparently it was then too. But I think of how people think it’s OK to drink and drive. They “know their limits”. It is such a foolish mindset. My heart genuinely aches for these people caught up in the sin of being a drunkard. I do not believe that alcoholism is a disease. I believe that some people struggle with different sins and that alcohol abuse is primarily a self control issue. That is what the Bible says so that is what I go with.
V7…we see here yet again that the way we act affects generations. There are many examples of this in the Bible. I know that our children must come to accept Christ and salvation on their own, but there are so many examples of how God blesses generations for their righteousness.
V11…I love this verse. There was a long period in my life where I didn’t know to look to a person’s actions to determine their character. I believed what people told me and didn’t check it against anything. That is a very scary place to be. For all my young ladies out there, remember to judge the character of these young guys you like, by their actions. There are many warnings against being around liars, so be sure to check what they say against the way they behave.
V22… we must remember to let the Lord handle the people in our lives who have wronged us. I have a recent experience of seeing how the Lord has handled someone who wronged me. It is not even about me, but the lifestyle of deceit and foolishness that the Lord has to deal with. The point is He handles it better than any way we ever could. When we take things into our own hands we end up looking foolish.
V24…we must remember that what the Lord has for us is better than anything we could even dream up for ourselves. When we don’t understand why things are happening we have to hold firm to God’s character and remember that he is faithful, loving and merciful.
V25…when I was younger there was this stupid thing that people said…”I put that on.” It was like “I swear on my mother’s grave”. That reminds me of this scripture. We are not to take lightly our vows. Jesus said to let our yes be yes and our no be no, and not to swear by things. That is just what this verse reminded me of; I don’t think that is the exact context of this verse.
V27…what did you guys get on this? Spirit=conscious which is our inner most being…sounds lame need something better.
Being led astray by alcohol is not wise. Anything that alters your mindset so that you are not capable of making good choices is not wise. I think of this often because it seems in our society today alcohol is such an issue. Apparently it was then too. But I think of how people think it’s OK to drink and drive. They “know their limits”. It is such a foolish mindset. My heart genuinely aches for these people caught up in the sin of being a drunkard. I do not believe that alcoholism is a disease. I believe that some people struggle with different sins and that alcohol abuse is primarily a self control issue. That is what the Bible says so that is what I go with.
V7…we see here yet again that the way we act affects generations. There are many examples of this in the Bible. I know that our children must come to accept Christ and salvation on their own, but there are so many examples of how God blesses generations for their righteousness.
V11…I love this verse. There was a long period in my life where I didn’t know to look to a person’s actions to determine their character. I believed what people told me and didn’t check it against anything. That is a very scary place to be. For all my young ladies out there, remember to judge the character of these young guys you like, by their actions. There are many warnings against being around liars, so be sure to check what they say against the way they behave.
V22… we must remember to let the Lord handle the people in our lives who have wronged us. I have a recent experience of seeing how the Lord has handled someone who wronged me. It is not even about me, but the lifestyle of deceit and foolishness that the Lord has to deal with. The point is He handles it better than any way we ever could. When we take things into our own hands we end up looking foolish.
V24…we must remember that what the Lord has for us is better than anything we could even dream up for ourselves. When we don’t understand why things are happening we have to hold firm to God’s character and remember that he is faithful, loving and merciful.
V25…when I was younger there was this stupid thing that people said…”I put that on.” It was like “I swear on my mother’s grave”. That reminds me of this scripture. We are not to take lightly our vows. Jesus said to let our yes be yes and our no be no, and not to swear by things. That is just what this verse reminded me of; I don’t think that is the exact context of this verse.
V27…what did you guys get on this? Spirit=conscious which is our inner most being…sounds lame need something better.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Proverbs 19
You can always tell someone is a fool when they are blaming God for things that have happened in their lives due to poor choices. Some people (fools apparently) do not accept responsibility for their actions or the consequences of them. I confess I have little patience for these people.
V8…loving your own soul…I got caught up in this for a minute. For those of you who don’t know I am very “anti” psychology and don’t get me started on “Christian psychology” which I think is one of the biggest oxy morons I’ve ever heard. But I digress. So I was thinking about how people encourage young girls not to be insecure, the idea of encouraging confidence and self worth. Anyway the conclusion I came to regarding this verse, in cohesiveness with the rest of scriptures, is that when you are wise you are comfortable in your own skin. You can be pleased with what God is doing in your life and be grateful you are making wise choices. When we encourage people to take their eyes of themselves and focus on the Lord and his infinite wisdom, there is a confidence and love that comes that we benefit from in a very mighty way.
V11…Not only is it important to be slow to anger, which is a theme we have seen time and time again this month, but it is also important to overlook transgressions. This is something I have tried to incorporate into my marriage. If I am upset about something I try not to bring it up right away. I take it to the Lord first and many times He remedies my problem, or shows me that it isn’t worth bringing up. Overlooking other people’s mistakes is a good thing.
A contentious wife is basically like Chinese water torture. I don’t want to be quarrelsome. I don’t want to always be looking for an argument. That is like torture to my husband and family.
Giving to others is always looked upon as a personal choice. I don’t know that biblically it is a choice. I believe we are called to give. It seems to me if someone asks for something we can give we should. What they do with what they give them is between them and the Lord.
Kindness, honesty and integrity are themes throughout this chapter. They are not the most desired traits in our society today. I find it interesting that honesty and kindness tend to be thrown together. We are living in a world where people justify their ugly words under the guise of honesty. That really bugs me, probably because I used to do it myself. Being honest isn’t a free card to be rude, or ugly to people. We need to maintain integrity and kindness while still being honest. This can be tricky sometimes, but that is why we are encouraged to be “slow to speak”.
“A lazy man buries his hand in the bowl, and will not so much as bring it to his mouth again.” That verse has always just cracked me up. I have felt that lazy before. If someone would just feed me! But it is a serious warning against laziness.
V8…loving your own soul…I got caught up in this for a minute. For those of you who don’t know I am very “anti” psychology and don’t get me started on “Christian psychology” which I think is one of the biggest oxy morons I’ve ever heard. But I digress. So I was thinking about how people encourage young girls not to be insecure, the idea of encouraging confidence and self worth. Anyway the conclusion I came to regarding this verse, in cohesiveness with the rest of scriptures, is that when you are wise you are comfortable in your own skin. You can be pleased with what God is doing in your life and be grateful you are making wise choices. When we encourage people to take their eyes of themselves and focus on the Lord and his infinite wisdom, there is a confidence and love that comes that we benefit from in a very mighty way.
V11…Not only is it important to be slow to anger, which is a theme we have seen time and time again this month, but it is also important to overlook transgressions. This is something I have tried to incorporate into my marriage. If I am upset about something I try not to bring it up right away. I take it to the Lord first and many times He remedies my problem, or shows me that it isn’t worth bringing up. Overlooking other people’s mistakes is a good thing.
A contentious wife is basically like Chinese water torture. I don’t want to be quarrelsome. I don’t want to always be looking for an argument. That is like torture to my husband and family.
Giving to others is always looked upon as a personal choice. I don’t know that biblically it is a choice. I believe we are called to give. It seems to me if someone asks for something we can give we should. What they do with what they give them is between them and the Lord.
Kindness, honesty and integrity are themes throughout this chapter. They are not the most desired traits in our society today. I find it interesting that honesty and kindness tend to be thrown together. We are living in a world where people justify their ugly words under the guise of honesty. That really bugs me, probably because I used to do it myself. Being honest isn’t a free card to be rude, or ugly to people. We need to maintain integrity and kindness while still being honest. This can be tricky sometimes, but that is why we are encouraged to be “slow to speak”.
“A lazy man buries his hand in the bowl, and will not so much as bring it to his mouth again.” That verse has always just cracked me up. I have felt that lazy before. If someone would just feed me! But it is a serious warning against laziness.
Proverbs 18
Verse one really intrigued me. It is so easy to get caught up in your own mind about something. You don’t want to hear what anyone else has to say about the matter. You want to be right in your own mind. It reminds me of Romans 12:16. It is no wonder that the book of Proverbs encourages not only to surround ourselves with wise counsel, but also to stay out of the path of fools. We, as humans , whether we like to admit it or not, are influenced by the people around us. It was interesting for me to think about verse one because it not only reminded me that we are to be careful who we spend our time with, but we also must remember to spend time with people. We were created as relational beings. Having no outside influences can be just as bad as poor influences.
If we are putting others first, then we will be seeking to understand and not be understood. As Christians we should always being trying to put others needs before our own. That being said, our priority should be to listen and understand. We need to not be so quick to get our point across.
Words of wisdom refresh a thirsty or dry soul. I love when someone says something to me and it just washes me with refreshment.
We don’t want to go looking for fights. We must remember our words have the power to uplift or destroy.
V 10…I’m so grateful that I am safe in the arms of Jesus. We can remember to find safety in the characteristics of God; faithfulness, mercy, power, wisdom and truth.
Haughtiness brings destruction, but humility brings honor.
A broken spirit…isn’t it true…who can bear it? I thought of it like a broken heart…the funny thing about a broken heart is that it hurts so you feel like you should be dead. Even in sickness if your spirit is well it will sustain you. Having a broken spirit can make you physically ill.
If we are prudent and wise we will seek after knowledge.
V24… “…warns that the person who makes friends too indiscriminately or too easily does so to his own destruction. On the other hand, a friend chosen wisely is more loyal than a brother. “Friend” was a strong word meaning “one who loves” and was used of Abraham, God’s friend.” MacArther Study Bible Commentary.
If we are putting others first, then we will be seeking to understand and not be understood. As Christians we should always being trying to put others needs before our own. That being said, our priority should be to listen and understand. We need to not be so quick to get our point across.
Words of wisdom refresh a thirsty or dry soul. I love when someone says something to me and it just washes me with refreshment.
We don’t want to go looking for fights. We must remember our words have the power to uplift or destroy.
V 10…I’m so grateful that I am safe in the arms of Jesus. We can remember to find safety in the characteristics of God; faithfulness, mercy, power, wisdom and truth.
Haughtiness brings destruction, but humility brings honor.
A broken spirit…isn’t it true…who can bear it? I thought of it like a broken heart…the funny thing about a broken heart is that it hurts so you feel like you should be dead. Even in sickness if your spirit is well it will sustain you. Having a broken spirit can make you physically ill.
If we are prudent and wise we will seek after knowledge.
V24… “…warns that the person who makes friends too indiscriminately or too easily does so to his own destruction. On the other hand, a friend chosen wisely is more loyal than a brother. “Friend” was a strong word meaning “one who loves” and was used of Abraham, God’s friend.” MacArther Study Bible Commentary.
Friday, July 17, 2009
Proverbs 17
The nuggets I gleaned from today’s study. ..
There is so much less we desire materially when there is peace in our home. The value of peace is so precious. I have noticed the value of peace and quietness so much more in the last few days, than I have ever noticed in my life. When there is strife in the home, it doesn’t matter what a wonderful house you have. You’d live in a tent to have peace.
It is so important to have a teachable spirit.
Rebellion isn’t to be taken lightly. There is a direct correlation between rebellion and evil.
A fool in his foolishness is dangerous. I know this to be true firsthand.
I would like to memorize verse 14. I wish I naturally stopped contention before a quarrel started. The releasing of water is such a vivid picture.
We are not to justify bad behavior.
“The difference between a friend and a brother is noted here. A true friend is a constant source of love, while a brother in one’s family may not be close, but is drawn near to help in trouble. Friends are closer than brothers because they are available at all times, not just in the crisis.” (McArther Study Bible Commentary) My brothers and sisters in Christ are my most valued friends and family. They are the ones I depend on in my most difficult times.
The theme throughout Proverbs of foolishness grieving parents has really been in on my mind. Unfortunately I know what it is to stumble through this life without following God. I have prayed for my children that they would never know what it is to live in the world. I have prayed since they were in my belly that they would love and serve the Lord with their whole hearts all of their days. I can only imagine the grief I would feel watching them try to live their lives in foolishness. It reminds me to continually be on my knees for my children.
If I could just keep my mouth shut sometimes, maybe people would, at the very least, see me as perceptive.
There is so much less we desire materially when there is peace in our home. The value of peace is so precious. I have noticed the value of peace and quietness so much more in the last few days, than I have ever noticed in my life. When there is strife in the home, it doesn’t matter what a wonderful house you have. You’d live in a tent to have peace.
It is so important to have a teachable spirit.
Rebellion isn’t to be taken lightly. There is a direct correlation between rebellion and evil.
A fool in his foolishness is dangerous. I know this to be true firsthand.
I would like to memorize verse 14. I wish I naturally stopped contention before a quarrel started. The releasing of water is such a vivid picture.
We are not to justify bad behavior.
“The difference between a friend and a brother is noted here. A true friend is a constant source of love, while a brother in one’s family may not be close, but is drawn near to help in trouble. Friends are closer than brothers because they are available at all times, not just in the crisis.” (McArther Study Bible Commentary) My brothers and sisters in Christ are my most valued friends and family. They are the ones I depend on in my most difficult times.
The theme throughout Proverbs of foolishness grieving parents has really been in on my mind. Unfortunately I know what it is to stumble through this life without following God. I have prayed for my children that they would never know what it is to live in the world. I have prayed since they were in my belly that they would love and serve the Lord with their whole hearts all of their days. I can only imagine the grief I would feel watching them try to live their lives in foolishness. It reminds me to continually be on my knees for my children.
If I could just keep my mouth shut sometimes, maybe people would, at the very least, see me as perceptive.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Proverbs 16
My thoughts are a jumbled mess today…good luck getting through them.
V 1 and 9…These scriptures support the idea that although we have free will, God is sovereign. This is a very difficult area for many people. I know so many people who can’t seem to be completely sold out for Christ because they really struggle with the idea that if God is in control, than it is impossible to have free will. I could write a book on my thoughts on this area, but I won’t. I would like to know all your thoughts on this.
I really enjoyed verse 6.
“In mercy and truth Atonement is provided for iniquity; and by the fear of the Lord one departs from evil”
That just about sums it all up, doesn’t it? It’s like the entire gospel message and idea of sanctification in one little verse. I just kept thinking about what a prophetic book the Bible is. I love reading through Proverbs.
V18… I love this verse. It is one of my token verses. Amos and I use this verse on each other all the time. It is of course a great verse to have memorized for you own humility, but it seems like I’ve used it a lot with teenage boys. Pride is the root of so much of our stumbling.
So I decided verse 20 is the secret of life that everyone is searching for. Basically if we heed the Word and trust in God we will find good and be happy. What more could we ask for?
V 25…This is the second time we have seen this verse in the last few chapters. That tells me its really important. I pray that I would never walk in a way that seems right to me, but is leading to death.
V30… I get so caught up on weird little tangents sometimes. Winking for example, I’m fascinated at how much the proverbs mention winking. I find it so interesting that just the gesture of deceitfulness is so bad. I can’t wink to save my life by the way, which I am excited about now that I think winking is bad.
V32…Being slow to anger and self-controlled is powerful! I guess that is why it is so difficult sometimes.
V 1 and 9…These scriptures support the idea that although we have free will, God is sovereign. This is a very difficult area for many people. I know so many people who can’t seem to be completely sold out for Christ because they really struggle with the idea that if God is in control, than it is impossible to have free will. I could write a book on my thoughts on this area, but I won’t. I would like to know all your thoughts on this.
I really enjoyed verse 6.
“In mercy and truth Atonement is provided for iniquity; and by the fear of the Lord one departs from evil”
That just about sums it all up, doesn’t it? It’s like the entire gospel message and idea of sanctification in one little verse. I just kept thinking about what a prophetic book the Bible is. I love reading through Proverbs.
V18… I love this verse. It is one of my token verses. Amos and I use this verse on each other all the time. It is of course a great verse to have memorized for you own humility, but it seems like I’ve used it a lot with teenage boys. Pride is the root of so much of our stumbling.
So I decided verse 20 is the secret of life that everyone is searching for. Basically if we heed the Word and trust in God we will find good and be happy. What more could we ask for?
V 25…This is the second time we have seen this verse in the last few chapters. That tells me its really important. I pray that I would never walk in a way that seems right to me, but is leading to death.
V30… I get so caught up on weird little tangents sometimes. Winking for example, I’m fascinated at how much the proverbs mention winking. I find it so interesting that just the gesture of deceitfulness is so bad. I can’t wink to save my life by the way, which I am excited about now that I think winking is bad.
V32…Being slow to anger and self-controlled is powerful! I guess that is why it is so difficult sometimes.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Proverbs 15
I have many notes on this chapter, but I think I’m just going to regurgitate my thoughts about the couple of verses that were so pertinent to me today.
V1… “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger…”
V17-18… “Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fatted calf with hatred. A wrathful man stirs up strife, gut he who is slow to anger allays contention.”
Not, that those of you who read this don’t know, but I’ll just remind you of my current life scenario. We have just brought home a 3 day old baby, have an almost 18 month old and my husband is home for 2 weeks to help with the transition.
I read half of chapter 15 last night. God knew that I would need to hear verse one going through my head all day long. I was so convicted when I read this last night about my tone of voice when I say things. I really had to ask myself if my tone was soft or harsh. Sometimes when we’ve learned certain things “not to say” we can still be so cutting with our tone. Well, truth be told I spend a few parts of the day in tears, but I was trying very hard to turn away wrath and not stir up anger. I doubt I did a very good job because it doesn’t seem like it was a very peaceful day, but I suppose, though I can’t imagine, it would have been worse had I not read this late last night. God knows my heart and will reveal to me my weakness in this particular area. I pray I will take His correction with acceptance and grace.
As I have been home the last few nights with my husband (remember he’s not always home at night) I have really remember how true verses 17 and 18 are. Any married couple with agree that they would rather have a dinner of herbs in a peaceful home than some steaks with a quarreling spouse. Please pray for me dear friends, that I would not do anything to stir up strife. Pray that I would accept the help I need and not judge the way my husband when he handles things differently than I do. I am feeling very insecure, not physically feeling well enough to manage my home on my own. I pray that God would keep my answers soft and our home filled with sacrificial love.
V1… “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger…”
V17-18… “Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fatted calf with hatred. A wrathful man stirs up strife, gut he who is slow to anger allays contention.”
Not, that those of you who read this don’t know, but I’ll just remind you of my current life scenario. We have just brought home a 3 day old baby, have an almost 18 month old and my husband is home for 2 weeks to help with the transition.
I read half of chapter 15 last night. God knew that I would need to hear verse one going through my head all day long. I was so convicted when I read this last night about my tone of voice when I say things. I really had to ask myself if my tone was soft or harsh. Sometimes when we’ve learned certain things “not to say” we can still be so cutting with our tone. Well, truth be told I spend a few parts of the day in tears, but I was trying very hard to turn away wrath and not stir up anger. I doubt I did a very good job because it doesn’t seem like it was a very peaceful day, but I suppose, though I can’t imagine, it would have been worse had I not read this late last night. God knows my heart and will reveal to me my weakness in this particular area. I pray I will take His correction with acceptance and grace.
As I have been home the last few nights with my husband (remember he’s not always home at night) I have really remember how true verses 17 and 18 are. Any married couple with agree that they would rather have a dinner of herbs in a peaceful home than some steaks with a quarreling spouse. Please pray for me dear friends, that I would not do anything to stir up strife. Pray that I would accept the help I need and not judge the way my husband when he handles things differently than I do. I am feeling very insecure, not physically feeling well enough to manage my home on my own. I pray that God would keep my answers soft and our home filled with sacrificial love.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Proverbs 14
Sorry, no 12 or 13...busy birthing baby.
The wise woman builds her house…I feel like I’m growing my house…can that count and make me wise?! Seriously though, as I sit here in my new home with my young boys I am convicted to always use God’s wisdom to make my house a home. I pray that my fear of the Lord would keep me walking upright, setting an excellent example to my children.
“Where no oxen are, there trough is clean, but much increase comes by the strength of an ox.” Proverbs 14:4
I love that verse. Isn’t it true that sometimes the most efficient way to do things is still such difficult work? There really are pros and cons to everything. I think of having a car. It costs money to purchase and maintain, but you can put your entire family in it and get to grandma’s house in 20 min. On the surface it would seem like having a car would just cost too much money, but for all it does for us, it’s worth it. Oxen made working on the crops so much easier and more efficient, but they did have to clean up after the animals. The end justified the means. We need to be wise in the choices we make.
V12… We can get so caught up in “our own way” of doing things that we don’t realize we are on a destructive path. That is why it is so important to always set Jesus Christ as your standard and keep your eyes focused on the Word, so you are not caught on a path that seems right to you, but is really leading to death.
V29… I have heard people describe impulsive as an admirable trait. I’m sure I myself described it as such at some point in my life. As I was reading this verse I realized that if the opposite of impulsive is self-controlled then there is no way biblically to justify both of these qualities as good.
V34…Let me first say than that I am a political advocate of Romans 13:1 that says God appoints all authorities. I vote and I pray for the leadership in our country. There may or may not be a time when God does not exalt our nation anymore due to our lack of righteousness. This verse reminded me first and foremost to be in prayer for my country, and to acknowledge that is has always been the hand of God that has made our country the blessing it is to live in.
The wise woman builds her house…I feel like I’m growing my house…can that count and make me wise?! Seriously though, as I sit here in my new home with my young boys I am convicted to always use God’s wisdom to make my house a home. I pray that my fear of the Lord would keep me walking upright, setting an excellent example to my children.
“Where no oxen are, there trough is clean, but much increase comes by the strength of an ox.” Proverbs 14:4
I love that verse. Isn’t it true that sometimes the most efficient way to do things is still such difficult work? There really are pros and cons to everything. I think of having a car. It costs money to purchase and maintain, but you can put your entire family in it and get to grandma’s house in 20 min. On the surface it would seem like having a car would just cost too much money, but for all it does for us, it’s worth it. Oxen made working on the crops so much easier and more efficient, but they did have to clean up after the animals. The end justified the means. We need to be wise in the choices we make.
V12… We can get so caught up in “our own way” of doing things that we don’t realize we are on a destructive path. That is why it is so important to always set Jesus Christ as your standard and keep your eyes focused on the Word, so you are not caught on a path that seems right to you, but is really leading to death.
V29… I have heard people describe impulsive as an admirable trait. I’m sure I myself described it as such at some point in my life. As I was reading this verse I realized that if the opposite of impulsive is self-controlled then there is no way biblically to justify both of these qualities as good.
V34…Let me first say than that I am a political advocate of Romans 13:1 that says God appoints all authorities. I vote and I pray for the leadership in our country. There may or may not be a time when God does not exalt our nation anymore due to our lack of righteousness. This verse reminded me first and foremost to be in prayer for my country, and to acknowledge that is has always been the hand of God that has made our country the blessing it is to live in.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Proverbs 11
Often times the Bible shows us something that pertains to something that we have gone through or are going through. There was a time in my life when I “loved” what I would now describe a wicked man. (I say wicked, in that he didn’t know the Lord) There was pride, dishonesty and deceitfulness, many qualities listed in the proverb of what a wicked man will be. “The wicked will fall by their own wickedness.” As I think of all the ways I watched this man’s wickedness cause him to stumble and/or fall I am reminded of another man, quite the opposite kind of man, the man I now call my husband. I ran into this old boyfriend the other day and as I watched him shake hands with my husband I was given such a clear picture of the 2 ways a man can choose to walk…wicked or righteous. This was such a vivid picture again brought to my mind with today’s reading.
“The integrity of the righteous will guide them.” By God’s grace alone, my husband is like this verse, and I will forever strive to deserve him.
Random other things:
V13 I hope to never be a gossip. Sometimes I really have to ask myself why am I repeating something.
V14 is probably my favorite verse in the Bible. It was only when God showed me this verse and began to give me my “multitude of counselors “ that my life really began to change , grow and bear fruit. Women’s Bible Study changed my entire life. These wise counselors, women I still turn to, guided me through the most difficult time in my life, not letting me fall.
V16 I pray I will become a gracious woman. I can’t even imagine that being the way someone would describe me, but I strive for it to be.
V22 I love the imagery in these verses. I love what my commentary said: “The principle here is that generosity, by God’s blessing, secures increase, while stinginess leads to poverty instead of expected gain. The one who gives receives far more in return.”
V29-30 Lord please help me to manage my home in a way that is pleasing to you. Make me righteous so that I may bear life giving fruit. Make these desires of my heart on a continual basis.
V31 I loved my commentary on this one too: “God’s final blessing and reward to the “righteous,” and His judgment and punishment of the “ungodly and sinners” come after life on this earth has ended. But there are foretastes of both during life on the earth, as the righteous experience God’s personal care and goodness, while the wicked are void of it.”
Isn’t it amazing that we get little tastes of the blessings that await us in heaven?!
“The integrity of the righteous will guide them.” By God’s grace alone, my husband is like this verse, and I will forever strive to deserve him.
Random other things:
V13 I hope to never be a gossip. Sometimes I really have to ask myself why am I repeating something.
V14 is probably my favorite verse in the Bible. It was only when God showed me this verse and began to give me my “multitude of counselors “ that my life really began to change , grow and bear fruit. Women’s Bible Study changed my entire life. These wise counselors, women I still turn to, guided me through the most difficult time in my life, not letting me fall.
V16 I pray I will become a gracious woman. I can’t even imagine that being the way someone would describe me, but I strive for it to be.
V22 I love the imagery in these verses. I love what my commentary said: “The principle here is that generosity, by God’s blessing, secures increase, while stinginess leads to poverty instead of expected gain. The one who gives receives far more in return.”
V29-30 Lord please help me to manage my home in a way that is pleasing to you. Make me righteous so that I may bear life giving fruit. Make these desires of my heart on a continual basis.
V31 I loved my commentary on this one too: “God’s final blessing and reward to the “righteous,” and His judgment and punishment of the “ungodly and sinners” come after life on this earth has ended. But there are foretastes of both during life on the earth, as the righteous experience God’s personal care and goodness, while the wicked are void of it.”
Isn’t it amazing that we get little tastes of the blessings that await us in heaven?!
Friday, July 10, 2009
Proverbs 10
Wisdom and foolishness are generational. We are not the only ones that our foolishness effects. “Treasures of wickedness profit nothing” ---there are things we are deceived into thinking are treasures that are of wickedness. These are temporary and profit nothing.
We are to be diligent, prepared hard workers. This morning I had to ask myself if I truly was pursuing these things. Am I as diligent and prepared as I should be? Am I a hard working as I should be all the time? I am praying that God would reveal to me my areas of weakness. There are blessings for the righteous. Isn’t that a wonderful thought?
A fool is always talking and never listening. There are quite a few of these proverbs that discuss the tongue and/or mouth. A great way to gage our maturity in Christ is to realistically evaluate how we are controlling our speech. There was a time in my life when I didn’t even know you were supposed to not say everything that went through your head. I was rightfully accused many times of not having a filter. “The mouth of the righteous is a well of life”. What a blessing to be considered such. Foolishness is also quickly associated with the mouth, which is no surprise here. We can say some pretty stupid things. Self-restraint with our words is a sign of wisdom. It appears to be our heart, mouth and lips that are going to show others our foolishness or wisdom.
“When the whirlwind passes by, the wicked is no more, but the righteous has an everlasting foundation.” This was my favorite verse today. In the whirlwinds of life we can stand firm if Christ is our foundation.
I don’t know that there was really anything productive about it, but I thought about verse 27 for some time. I often wonder about how the scriptures say the wicked people’s lives will be shortened. I do believe that God knows if a person is never going to repent and is just leading others astray and hence some of these people may die young. Maybe it’s just talking about the consequences of poor choices. My commentary didn’t say anything about it. I’m torn between knowing the issue must be of importance if it is in the Bible and not wanting to get caught up in something that really has no benefit to my walk with the Lord. But in my desire to know His character more, verses like this always fascinate me.
We are to be diligent, prepared hard workers. This morning I had to ask myself if I truly was pursuing these things. Am I as diligent and prepared as I should be? Am I a hard working as I should be all the time? I am praying that God would reveal to me my areas of weakness. There are blessings for the righteous. Isn’t that a wonderful thought?
A fool is always talking and never listening. There are quite a few of these proverbs that discuss the tongue and/or mouth. A great way to gage our maturity in Christ is to realistically evaluate how we are controlling our speech. There was a time in my life when I didn’t even know you were supposed to not say everything that went through your head. I was rightfully accused many times of not having a filter. “The mouth of the righteous is a well of life”. What a blessing to be considered such. Foolishness is also quickly associated with the mouth, which is no surprise here. We can say some pretty stupid things. Self-restraint with our words is a sign of wisdom. It appears to be our heart, mouth and lips that are going to show others our foolishness or wisdom.
“When the whirlwind passes by, the wicked is no more, but the righteous has an everlasting foundation.” This was my favorite verse today. In the whirlwinds of life we can stand firm if Christ is our foundation.
I don’t know that there was really anything productive about it, but I thought about verse 27 for some time. I often wonder about how the scriptures say the wicked people’s lives will be shortened. I do believe that God knows if a person is never going to repent and is just leading others astray and hence some of these people may die young. Maybe it’s just talking about the consequences of poor choices. My commentary didn’t say anything about it. I’m torn between knowing the issue must be of importance if it is in the Bible and not wanting to get caught up in something that really has no benefit to my walk with the Lord. But in my desire to know His character more, verses like this always fascinate me.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Proverbs 9
The first few verses of this chapter remind me of the Proverbs 31 woman. She, like personified wisdom is always ready and prepared with the best things on her table for her family. My prayer is that my home will always reflect diligence and preparedness on my part.
If we are wise we will appreciate rebuke and correction. Oh, how I lack wisdom. I think of being married. There is so much opportunity for our spouses to see our flaws, and yet we often times discredit any opinion they have of us by getting angry or upset when they bring something to our attention. A wise man will actually love someone who rebukes them. A wise man will increase his learning when instruction is given to him. There is no point in trying to rebuke or correct a wicked man. I hope no one ever feels that way about me. I hope people always feel that they can bring things to my attention. May I always desire to be wiser! I’d hate to think that I fell into the category of swine you don’t want to throw pearls to.
Clamorous- vigorous in demands or complaints
I don’t want to be a foolish woman. That means no vigorous demands or complaints on my end. I can’t help but translate this as not being a “naggy wife”. It would be foolish.
“Stolen water is sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.” The temptations of this world often seem sweet to us for one reason or another, but the consequences are severe. There is often a desire to see what we can get away with, or maybe just a little rebelliousness trying to get out. We must remember that sin that seems enticing for a moment is really just temporary fulfillment and instant gratification. It is never worth the cost in the end.
If we are wise we will appreciate rebuke and correction. Oh, how I lack wisdom. I think of being married. There is so much opportunity for our spouses to see our flaws, and yet we often times discredit any opinion they have of us by getting angry or upset when they bring something to our attention. A wise man will actually love someone who rebukes them. A wise man will increase his learning when instruction is given to him. There is no point in trying to rebuke or correct a wicked man. I hope no one ever feels that way about me. I hope people always feel that they can bring things to my attention. May I always desire to be wiser! I’d hate to think that I fell into the category of swine you don’t want to throw pearls to.
Clamorous- vigorous in demands or complaints
I don’t want to be a foolish woman. That means no vigorous demands or complaints on my end. I can’t help but translate this as not being a “naggy wife”. It would be foolish.
“Stolen water is sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.” The temptations of this world often seem sweet to us for one reason or another, but the consequences are severe. There is often a desire to see what we can get away with, or maybe just a little rebelliousness trying to get out. We must remember that sin that seems enticing for a moment is really just temporary fulfillment and instant gratification. It is never worth the cost in the end.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Proverbs 8
Perhaps wisdom is personified as a woman because you have to pursue it to get it. Isn't that true of a woman, at least in general. She is actually crying out to be paid attention to. She wants to be heard and understood. Maybe men feel like this too, but it definitely doesn't show as much.
We can tell what is wisdom because it lines up with righteousness. It will align with truth and there will be nothing crooked or perverse in it. There is strength in wisdom. It is better than any material thing.
Wow, verses 22-31 are so powerful. It is the first time we have had a really different theme so far in Proverbs. There is so much Jesus here in the Old Testament. I am always overwhelmed to see how much Christ is really felt in the OT. This creation account is so beautiful. We forget the magnitude of earth as a creation. The vastness and the details are so vividly drawn out for us in these words. I truly stand in awe of our Creator.
And it is after this amazing account of creation that we are implored once again to seek after wisdom. We will obtain favor from the Lord, and find life. Blessed is the man who listens to wisdom. Lord I pray that I would always remember to seek after wisdom like the treasure it is. Give me eyes to see the world as you do.
We can tell what is wisdom because it lines up with righteousness. It will align with truth and there will be nothing crooked or perverse in it. There is strength in wisdom. It is better than any material thing.
Wow, verses 22-31 are so powerful. It is the first time we have had a really different theme so far in Proverbs. There is so much Jesus here in the Old Testament. I am always overwhelmed to see how much Christ is really felt in the OT. This creation account is so beautiful. We forget the magnitude of earth as a creation. The vastness and the details are so vividly drawn out for us in these words. I truly stand in awe of our Creator.
And it is after this amazing account of creation that we are implored once again to seek after wisdom. We will obtain favor from the Lord, and find life. Blessed is the man who listens to wisdom. Lord I pray that I would always remember to seek after wisdom like the treasure it is. Give me eyes to see the world as you do.
Proverbs 7
Almost this entire chapter is about the crafty harlot. I pondered her for some time this morning. First I heeded the warnings of qualities not to have based on her description. Not to be loud or rebellious out lurking in the streets trying to deceive men .This woman was so alluring. Her husband is away and she is using her enticing speech and flattering lips to get a man into bed with her.
I’m not proud, but saddened to say that I understand the harlot. I know there was a time in my life where I used all the allurement I could muster up for the attention of men. It is easy for me to see how she is craving attention and physical fulfillment. As embarrassing as it is to admit, there was a time when I took pride in knowing that a man desired to be with me. This was most obviously not a better time in my life.
As most of you know I have a baby due any day now. One of the names we especially like for a girl is Delilah. There have been many people who have brought up what a horrible namesake that would be for a girl because of the famous story of Samson and Delilah. I never knew this story as a girl. I have only learned its tale in the last 5 years or so. With both the stories of Adam and Eve and Samson and Delilah I believe there is a great opportunity to explain to a young girl and woman the potential influence she can have in a man’s life. The Bible gives many clear examples of the influence a woman can have, both positive and negative in a man’s life. Delilah and Eve were both very selfish in stumbling their men. What an opportunity to show my daughter how even with great influence she needs to put God’s values first and consider the consequences for the men she is stumbling.
As a married woman serving the Lord, I am blessed to not struggle in this area anymore. God has shown me the consequences of my sin toward others. I would like to encourage anyone who does struggle with seeking attention from men, whether single or married, to really guard yourself and seek the Lord in this area. Be modest in both your speech and attire. It is summer and it is hot. It is easy to notice attention when you are wearing tiny clothes. Guard your body, your lips and your mind.
I’m not proud, but saddened to say that I understand the harlot. I know there was a time in my life where I used all the allurement I could muster up for the attention of men. It is easy for me to see how she is craving attention and physical fulfillment. As embarrassing as it is to admit, there was a time when I took pride in knowing that a man desired to be with me. This was most obviously not a better time in my life.
As most of you know I have a baby due any day now. One of the names we especially like for a girl is Delilah. There have been many people who have brought up what a horrible namesake that would be for a girl because of the famous story of Samson and Delilah. I never knew this story as a girl. I have only learned its tale in the last 5 years or so. With both the stories of Adam and Eve and Samson and Delilah I believe there is a great opportunity to explain to a young girl and woman the potential influence she can have in a man’s life. The Bible gives many clear examples of the influence a woman can have, both positive and negative in a man’s life. Delilah and Eve were both very selfish in stumbling their men. What an opportunity to show my daughter how even with great influence she needs to put God’s values first and consider the consequences for the men she is stumbling.
As a married woman serving the Lord, I am blessed to not struggle in this area anymore. God has shown me the consequences of my sin toward others. I would like to encourage anyone who does struggle with seeking attention from men, whether single or married, to really guard yourself and seek the Lord in this area. Be modest in both your speech and attire. It is summer and it is hot. It is easy to notice attention when you are wearing tiny clothes. Guard your body, your lips and your mind.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Proverbs 6
Good stewardship is so important. Proverbs 6 discourages us from even helping others be poor stewards by helping them acquire debt. These days I think of co-signing a loan, or letting someone use your credit card. It is not only bad for them, but it ensnares us too.
We have to work hard, like ants. I thought about ants for a while this morning. I have never seen one that was not moving, and they never really give up either. They can carry things that are way bigger than they are which signifies strength. They seem to always be gathering and preparing. This is how we are told to work. We should be strong, diligent, prepared and always willing to keep moving forward. I mean seriously have you ever tried to drown an ant. They really don’t go down without a fight. And I’ve noticed when trials come in our lives it often feels like someone is trying to drown us and just trying to keep our heads above water takes all our strength, but we must be inspired by our tiny little friends and not give up. After all, laziness brings on poverty. Isn’t it amazing that God created ants to give us examples of things like this. They always seem like such a nuisance if we see them, but really there is a lot to admire about these little insects.
We get a very good picture of a wicked man in Proverbs 6. They are always trying to deceive people. Look out for that, especially my young ladies who are still looking for husband quality men. There are serious consequences for these people. They will be broken without remedy.
Today’s reading also brought more warnings about adultery. It is such a serious topic. What I really noticed today was what a preventative sin it really is. We are not to even lust after beauty in our hearts. Adultery doesn’t just happen. It is not an accidental thing. We must remember that it is a slow progression that begins in our hearts and minds. Don’t even let these thoughts enter your heart. The consequences for such sin are long lasting and severe.
We have to work hard, like ants. I thought about ants for a while this morning. I have never seen one that was not moving, and they never really give up either. They can carry things that are way bigger than they are which signifies strength. They seem to always be gathering and preparing. This is how we are told to work. We should be strong, diligent, prepared and always willing to keep moving forward. I mean seriously have you ever tried to drown an ant. They really don’t go down without a fight. And I’ve noticed when trials come in our lives it often feels like someone is trying to drown us and just trying to keep our heads above water takes all our strength, but we must be inspired by our tiny little friends and not give up. After all, laziness brings on poverty. Isn’t it amazing that God created ants to give us examples of things like this. They always seem like such a nuisance if we see them, but really there is a lot to admire about these little insects.
We get a very good picture of a wicked man in Proverbs 6. They are always trying to deceive people. Look out for that, especially my young ladies who are still looking for husband quality men. There are serious consequences for these people. They will be broken without remedy.
Today’s reading also brought more warnings about adultery. It is such a serious topic. What I really noticed today was what a preventative sin it really is. We are not to even lust after beauty in our hearts. Adultery doesn’t just happen. It is not an accidental thing. We must remember that it is a slow progression that begins in our hearts and minds. Don’t even let these thoughts enter your heart. The consequences for such sin are long lasting and severe.
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Proverbs 5
Today reminded me of some great things to keep in prayer regarding my marriage. There are so many temptations out there. I’m praying that not only would I never have a desire to be a seductress, but also that my husband would never fall victim to one. I’m praying that my husband and I would always delight in each other. I’m praying for my single ladies too, that you and whoever the Lord has set aside for you would be patient in waiting for the delight you will one day have in each other.
God knows all our ways and all our sin. I was reminded today of how sin can ensnare us. I do not want to die from lack of instruction. The instruction is clear and available and I pray I am always open to receive it. I was reminded verses in James.
“But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then when desire has conceived it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full grown brings forth death.” James 1:14-15
We need to stay focused on God and ask Him to reveal any sin in lives. We need to be aware of our temptations early on, so that they do not cause us to sin. May we all seek the righteousness of Christ!
God knows all our ways and all our sin. I was reminded today of how sin can ensnare us. I do not want to die from lack of instruction. The instruction is clear and available and I pray I am always open to receive it. I was reminded verses in James.
“But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then when desire has conceived it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full grown brings forth death.” James 1:14-15
We need to stay focused on God and ask Him to reveal any sin in lives. We need to be aware of our temptations early on, so that they do not cause us to sin. May we all seek the righteousness of Christ!
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Proverbs 4
How I long to desire instruction. But the truth is often times I don’t want to be told what to do. But to be wise I must overcome this. I must learn to love instruction, understanding and good doctrine. Proverbs 4 tells us not to forget wisdom and how important it is. God knew we would forget its importance easily. I believe that is why we are told so many times in this Proverb to Hear, Keep, and give attention. What is being taught must be extra important if we are so adamantly reminded to pay attention to it. We are to put wisdom above all things, so that we may be adorned with grace. Oh how I long to be graceful. We must take firm hold of instruction. We have to be careful to hold on to it at all times and not lose it, like our money or our cell phones. Doesn’t it seem like we hold on to those things with more care?
Wicked people desire to make others stumble. They seek after it, they even live off it. They do not even know what makes them stumble. I am always very weary of people who do not know why things are so difficult for them. They are the people that say things like “I don’t find trouble. Trouble finds me.” The Bible describes these as wicked, walking in darkness. We are to avoid their paths.
Don’t be deceitful or perverse. So many things call fall into this category. We must strive for purity. I pray the Lord would reveal to me anything I do that is deceitful or perverse in his eyes. We must guard our steps, watch where we are going and be aware of what path we are on, being careful to follow the narrow path at all times.
Wicked people desire to make others stumble. They seek after it, they even live off it. They do not even know what makes them stumble. I am always very weary of people who do not know why things are so difficult for them. They are the people that say things like “I don’t find trouble. Trouble finds me.” The Bible describes these as wicked, walking in darkness. We are to avoid their paths.
Don’t be deceitful or perverse. So many things call fall into this category. We must strive for purity. I pray the Lord would reveal to me anything I do that is deceitful or perverse in his eyes. We must guard our steps, watch where we are going and be aware of what path we are on, being careful to follow the narrow path at all times.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Proverbs 3
I am overwhelmed with the benefits that wisdom brings. It is for our own good we should seek it above all things. God gives us so much for our own good and I think we forget that we are the ones who benefit.
Remembering and keeping the Lord’s commandments is what gives us peace and it even adds to our lives. That is so amazing to me! It’s what people are searching for in all the ways, but the wisdom and knowledge of the Lord promises these things. We have to remember that we are created with great purpose and design. Verse 3 was the first scripture that I ever memorized. I memorized it in NIV so instead of mercy and truth it was love and faithfulness. It is interesting to me that in both verse 3 and verse 8 there is reference to inside and outside parts of our body. It reminds me of the idea that what is in our hearts will come out of our mouths or just show on the outside. Our hearts will reflect our actions.
We can’t be wise in our own eyes. Some of us have to figure things out for ourselves, but this is foolishness to God. He gives us the answers. We need to seek His wisdom and guidance continually.
All I have is from the Lord. Being a good steward of all He has blessed us with is so important. I pray that God would reveal new ways for us to be good stewards of our family, home and vehicles.
Chasten can mean to correct. It can also mean to restrain or to purify and refine. If our desire is to truly be purified and refined by the Lord than we must not begrudge any sort of correction. The Lord has to show us when we do wrong so that we may be better purified. I want Him to see His face in my reflection and whatever He has to do to get me there I am willing to endure.
Proverbs 3 tells us that wisdom and understanding will actually make you happy. Ah, my friends, we have discovered the secret to happiness, though the Lord meant it as no secret at all. The benefits of this wisdom and understanding are far greater than anything this world has to offer. Some of the benefits I noticed were: long life, grace, ability to walk safely, not stumbling, long life, riches, honor, pleasantness, peace, not having to be afraid and having confidence in the Lord. Are these not the deepest desires of a man’s heart?
We cannot withhold good. What we have, we must give. Sometimes we get caught up in the “let me have some coffee and pray about it” mentality, but God tells us here to give to anyone in need who crosses our path.
“He blesses the home of the just.” As I read this I thought how much as a wife and mother I desire to have a blessed home. Make me just Lord. My desire is to be humble and have grace and to be wise so that I may inherit glory.
Remembering and keeping the Lord’s commandments is what gives us peace and it even adds to our lives. That is so amazing to me! It’s what people are searching for in all the ways, but the wisdom and knowledge of the Lord promises these things. We have to remember that we are created with great purpose and design. Verse 3 was the first scripture that I ever memorized. I memorized it in NIV so instead of mercy and truth it was love and faithfulness. It is interesting to me that in both verse 3 and verse 8 there is reference to inside and outside parts of our body. It reminds me of the idea that what is in our hearts will come out of our mouths or just show on the outside. Our hearts will reflect our actions.
We can’t be wise in our own eyes. Some of us have to figure things out for ourselves, but this is foolishness to God. He gives us the answers. We need to seek His wisdom and guidance continually.
All I have is from the Lord. Being a good steward of all He has blessed us with is so important. I pray that God would reveal new ways for us to be good stewards of our family, home and vehicles.
Chasten can mean to correct. It can also mean to restrain or to purify and refine. If our desire is to truly be purified and refined by the Lord than we must not begrudge any sort of correction. The Lord has to show us when we do wrong so that we may be better purified. I want Him to see His face in my reflection and whatever He has to do to get me there I am willing to endure.
Proverbs 3 tells us that wisdom and understanding will actually make you happy. Ah, my friends, we have discovered the secret to happiness, though the Lord meant it as no secret at all. The benefits of this wisdom and understanding are far greater than anything this world has to offer. Some of the benefits I noticed were: long life, grace, ability to walk safely, not stumbling, long life, riches, honor, pleasantness, peace, not having to be afraid and having confidence in the Lord. Are these not the deepest desires of a man’s heart?
We cannot withhold good. What we have, we must give. Sometimes we get caught up in the “let me have some coffee and pray about it” mentality, but God tells us here to give to anyone in need who crosses our path.
“He blesses the home of the just.” As I read this I thought how much as a wife and mother I desire to have a blessed home. Make me just Lord. My desire is to be humble and have grace and to be wise so that I may inherit glory.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Proverbs 2
Each Chapter is full of so many precious valuable jewels. I continue to be amazed by the desire of the Lord to give us the answers. God tells us how to understand the fear of the Lord and how to find the knowledge of God. I can’t help but wonder if we grasp the magnitude of how amazing that truly is. By treasuring the Lord’s commands, crying out for discernment, listening to wisdom and applying this understanding we will come to understand what it really means to fear the Lord. We will be able to find the knowledge of God. That seriously boggles my mind. We are to seek wisdom like it is the most precious treasure. The Bible gives us a comparison of something tangible (silver) so we can grasp the value. But do we really seek after wisdom, even the way we seek after money?
Wisdom, knowledge and understanding can only come from God.
"See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ." Colossians 2:8
There are many other ways that people try to find wisdom, knowledge and understanding, but the empty philosophies of this world will leave them thirsty for the truth.
I’m so encouraged by verses 7-9. It is a comfort to remember that when we are serving and walking with the Lord He will guard our paths and preserve our ways. We will be able to understand righteousness and justice. This lack of understanding really can hinder people from knowing the Lord. There is a strong misunderstanding of God when people ask questions like: How can a loving God send people to hell? How encouraging to know that walking with the Lord will give us the capacity to understand His righteousness and justice.
The fruit of wisdom and knowledge is discretion. True understanding keeps us on the narrow path.
The seductress…I know that the Bible is referencing this as a prostitute or an adulteress, but that doesn’t generally apply to most of us. What I do think applies to many of us is the way we can tempt or stumble men with our words or the way we are dressed. If a man looks at a woman lustfully he commits adultery. There are many ways we can’t control that, but there are several ways that we can. Modesty and purity of our minds will help us not to be seductresses in our hearts.
Many blessings await the faithful followers of Christ. But there are severe warnings for the wicked and unfaithful and the end of this chapter. We should not only use this to remember to be faithful in our own walks, but to encourage others to seek the true path of wisdom and understanding.
Wisdom, knowledge and understanding can only come from God.
"See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ." Colossians 2:8
There are many other ways that people try to find wisdom, knowledge and understanding, but the empty philosophies of this world will leave them thirsty for the truth.
I’m so encouraged by verses 7-9. It is a comfort to remember that when we are serving and walking with the Lord He will guard our paths and preserve our ways. We will be able to understand righteousness and justice. This lack of understanding really can hinder people from knowing the Lord. There is a strong misunderstanding of God when people ask questions like: How can a loving God send people to hell? How encouraging to know that walking with the Lord will give us the capacity to understand His righteousness and justice.
The fruit of wisdom and knowledge is discretion. True understanding keeps us on the narrow path.
The seductress…I know that the Bible is referencing this as a prostitute or an adulteress, but that doesn’t generally apply to most of us. What I do think applies to many of us is the way we can tempt or stumble men with our words or the way we are dressed. If a man looks at a woman lustfully he commits adultery. There are many ways we can’t control that, but there are several ways that we can. Modesty and purity of our minds will help us not to be seductresses in our hearts.
Many blessings await the faithful followers of Christ. But there are severe warnings for the wicked and unfaithful and the end of this chapter. We should not only use this to remember to be faithful in our own walks, but to encourage others to seek the true path of wisdom and understanding.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Proverbs 1
I absolutely adore verses 1-6. It is so encouraging to be given ways the book of Proverbs will enrich your life. The simple will have prudence. The wise man will increase learning. Even the young will be given knowledge and instruction. What a blessing to those who are seeking wisdom.
When I was in HS I saw a patch on someones backpack that said "Fear God." I remember thinking that they had it all wrong. Why would we fear God? I thought they were mocking God. I was with a friend at the time, who told me that it was something in the Bible. It wasn't until many years later that I understood the gospel and the reverent fear that comes from serving an all knowing God. I often think of that day and how God planted the seed in my heart. "Fear of God is the beginning of knowledge." Let's just say it was a slow beginning for me, but a beginning nonetheless.
If sinners entice you... and oh how they did for a long while. It would have been so nice to know these verses earlier in my life. So much sin enticed me, everything from mobsters to drug dealers, I was always absolutely fascinated and wanting to know more. I could give first hand accounts of why to stay far from sinners, but the truth was always here for me to find without any personal experience. That never ceases to amaze me. There are truths I have come to find out on my own, but the Bible had the answers all along. Foolish me, always enduring the consequences of my sin.
The amazing thing about wisdom is that it is available to EVERYONE. It is not about common sense or book smarts. It is all about learning to see the world through God's eyes. I hate to think of the fool I have been hating knowledge and having no repentance from my sin. Now, in my quest and desire for wisdom, I am deeply saddened by those seeking wisdom and knowledge who haven't figured out the right path yet. My prayer is that none of us would be fools forever. When we refuse wisdom the consequences can be and most often are devastating. (v24-32) I have known the truth of these verses. If you have not I pray that you never will. If you have then I know you understand grace in a way that deepens your faith immeasurably.
"But whoever listens to me will dwell safely, And will be secure without fear of evil." Proverbs 1:33
May we all listen to wisdom so that we may dwell safely and secure.
When I was in HS I saw a patch on someones backpack that said "Fear God." I remember thinking that they had it all wrong. Why would we fear God? I thought they were mocking God. I was with a friend at the time, who told me that it was something in the Bible. It wasn't until many years later that I understood the gospel and the reverent fear that comes from serving an all knowing God. I often think of that day and how God planted the seed in my heart. "Fear of God is the beginning of knowledge." Let's just say it was a slow beginning for me, but a beginning nonetheless.
If sinners entice you... and oh how they did for a long while. It would have been so nice to know these verses earlier in my life. So much sin enticed me, everything from mobsters to drug dealers, I was always absolutely fascinated and wanting to know more. I could give first hand accounts of why to stay far from sinners, but the truth was always here for me to find without any personal experience. That never ceases to amaze me. There are truths I have come to find out on my own, but the Bible had the answers all along. Foolish me, always enduring the consequences of my sin.
The amazing thing about wisdom is that it is available to EVERYONE. It is not about common sense or book smarts. It is all about learning to see the world through God's eyes. I hate to think of the fool I have been hating knowledge and having no repentance from my sin. Now, in my quest and desire for wisdom, I am deeply saddened by those seeking wisdom and knowledge who haven't figured out the right path yet. My prayer is that none of us would be fools forever. When we refuse wisdom the consequences can be and most often are devastating. (v24-32) I have known the truth of these verses. If you have not I pray that you never will. If you have then I know you understand grace in a way that deepens your faith immeasurably.
"But whoever listens to me will dwell safely, And will be secure without fear of evil." Proverbs 1:33
May we all listen to wisdom so that we may dwell safely and secure.
Proverbs in July
I'm going through the book of Proverbs this month! Anyone up for going it through it with me? 31 days in July. 31 chapters in the book of Proverbs. I love Proverbs because the entire book gives us so much valuable information on how to relate to God, to others, and even ourselves. Wisdom, which is the one quality I have come to desire most in life is a central theme throughout the book. Throughout my years, whether walking closely or far from the Lord, this book has always been an instrumental tool in growing my faith. I will venture into the next 31 days with confidence that the Lord will reveal Himself to me in new ways. "As iron sharpens iron so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend."So, join me if you will and let’s see what the Lord has for us through a short, but deep summer study. Comment and let me know what you think and what God is showing you.
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