I can’t believe my husband is working on the sex day of the love dare. This is such a bummer.
Intimacy in a marriage is so important. It breaks my heart when I hear about women who withhold sex from their husbands not understanding how destructive the consequences can be. What this means that I think women don’t understand sometimes is “have sex with your husband when he wants you to”. Sometimes you will have sex when you don’t want to. I know this is a shocking concept, but we are told our bodies belong to our husbands. Yes we are also told theirs belongs to us, but like all other biblical concepts we are to focus on how to serve.
I happen to be a person who feels most love when there is physical affection involved. I can honestly say that when my husband and I have gone a few day s without being intimate it really affects me negatively. This may not be the way you are in your marriage, but it might give you insight to the way your husband feels. Remember ladies men a generally very visual and they often have sexual desires women do not. It is your responsibility to meet those needs for your husband, in the biblical confines of keeping your marriage bed pure of course.
The other amazing thing to me about God, marriage and sex is He truly does bless you in this area when you seek Him on it. You can pray about sex, your insecurities and even your drive or lack of if it doesn’t correlate with your husbands. God desires this part of your marriage to be lovely too!!!
So go get some sex from your husband’s today!!! Focus on what a blessing it is to meet the needs of your spouse!!!
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I'm cracking up! SEx day! lol Is it today? I thought it was tomorrow! yay! lol I am similar, my 1st love language is physical affection. So is my husbands so we get along well in this area ;-) lol But I still pray now for the Lord to keep us alive and well in this area, and sensitive to one anothers needs and desires as we grow and change. Sometimes it's hard for me with our pasts. We remained pure during dating, didn't even kiss until our wedding day, and the Lord has made something extraordinary out of what I used to take for granted. But now and then the enemy gets to me with the fact that we were both previously married etc. So I'm very aware to try and keep this a lovely, honorable, beautiful thing in our marriage. I pray to never take it for granted, I will take care of my physical body and never use it as a weapon. Yay for "sex day" lol
everyday is sex day!!!! :) bwahahahaha
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